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Feelings + Overwhelm / teens · adults / Reflect

What Do I Actually Know?

Separate the confirmed facts from the worst-case additions.

What this is for

Your brain has filled in a lot of blanks with assumptions, and it's hard to tell what you actually know versus what you've imagined.

When to use it

When you're spiralling about a situation with real gaps in it — an unclear message, an ambiguous look, an unfinished conversation.

What you leave with

A short, honest list of what's confirmed versus assumed.

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List only what you know for certain — things you saw, heard, or were told directly.

Pick one to keep going.

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