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Explain Your Brain

Say it once, plainly, so they stop guessing.

What this is for

People fill in the wrong reason for ADHD behaviour — rude, careless, lazy — because you never told them the real one.

When to use it

Right after someone misreads something you did, or before a situation where you know it'll happen again.

What you leave with

A short, borrowable line that replaces their guess with the truth, sized for who you're talking to.

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Who are you explaining this to?

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Why this can help

A brief, factual explanation changes how someone interprets a behaviour, which changes how they respond to it next time — far more reliably than hoping they figure it out.

Attribution theory in social psychology

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